Embracing the In-Between: Loving the Home You’re In

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The moving truck had barely pulled away from the driveway when someone offered a bit of well-meaning advice:

“Now, Rita, don’t fall in love with this house, ’cause you can’t have it for long!”

I laughed at the warning, but deep down I already knew the truth: it was too late. I had fallen in love the moment we crossed the threshold.

After two and a half months in this house, my fondness has only grown. I enjoy the airy, open-concept living space, the cheerful wall colors, and a kitchen that somehow makes everyday tasks feel easier and brighter. The layout encourages conversation and togetherness, and the light that pours in during the day transforms ordinary moments into small delights.

Bathrooms are often the unsung heroes of a home, and this place has not one but two that feel modern and welcoming—with glass shower doors, ceramic tile, and finishes that make the space feel intentional. There was a little learning curve—finding the right way to clean the glass streak-free—but now the routines are in place and the rooms shine.

One practical joy: the thermostat. Being able to warm the house quickly on a chilly evening is a small luxury I appreciate, especially after years of different kinds of heating systems and the hassles they sometimes bring.

Outside, our modest deck sits tucked beneath a tree, offering a gentle mix of sun and shade. It’s the kind of spot where a morning coffee tastes better and evenings feel more peaceful—small design features that add up to a sense of home.

This house is more than four walls. It’s our “in-between” place: a space we’re grateful to have while we consider the next chapter. It has sheltered and supported us during a transitional season, and living here has felt like receiving a thoughtful gift—comfortable, safe, and unexpectedly nurturing.

Now we’re facing a new milestone: after nearly 26 years of marriage, we’ve begun looking for our very first long-term family home. It’s exciting, but I won’t pretend it isn’t intimidating. The local market is competitive, prices can be overwhelming, and we aren’t sure what our final choice will look like this coming fall. It might be very different from the cozy place we currently call home.

Rather than giving in to anxiety about what may come, I’ve been practicing a simpler approach: appreciating the present. Choosing to rest in the current moment and to delight in everyday comforts has made this in-between season feel rich and purposeful. There’s a freedom in surrendering worry and allowing ourselves to enjoy where we are right now.

I’ve found encouragement in books that promote loving the home you have and simplifying life around the things you cherish. One book that resonated with me is Love the Home You Have: Simple Ways to Embrace Your Style, Get Organized, and Delight in Where You Are. Another recent title that I’m slowly working through—savoring one chapter at a time—is Make Room for What You Love: Your Essential Guide to Organizing and Simplifying. Both books offer practical tips and gentle perspective for making a living space feel intentional and cared for, even during transitions.

Practical guidance—whether tips for planning a move or strategies for organizing small spaces—has helped me approach change with more grace. Even when the future feels uncertain, small, purposeful actions like decluttering a storage closet or organizing sentimental items can create breathing room—both physically and emotionally.

So my next step is simple and intentional: make room. Clear out the corners, sort through what we truly love, and prepare both our home and our hearts for whatever comes next. This season is teaching me the value of present gratitude and thoughtful preparation, and I’m learning to find joy in the small comforts of an in-between home that has already given us so much.

**Make Room for What You Love: Your Essential Guide to Organizing and Simplifying is available as part of the author’s work. I received a copy as part of a book launch group and have been enjoying it chapter by chapter. If you’re looking for inspiration to simplify and organize, consider adding it to your reading list (affiliate).