Host a My Favorite Things Party: Rules and Invitation Wording

Where the Idea of a “My Favorite Things” Party Came From

A longtime friend and I loved watching Oprah’s “My Favorite Things” segments together. Seeing people in the audience receive thoughtful, fun items inspired the idea of adapting that excitement into a realistic, budget-friendly party: a My Favorite Things Christmas Party. It’s a simple, joyful twist on gift exchanges that focuses on sharing a small item you love rather than competing on price or extravagance.

I first saw the concept online and have hosted several of these gatherings. Each one has been relaxed, laughter-filled, and memorable—perfect for the holidays or a winter gathering.

How a My Favorite Things Party Works

• Each guest brings multiple identical gifts—traditionally three—each one costing around $5 or less.
• Guests also bring a favorite snack to share with the group.
• Everyone’s name goes into a bowl one time for each gift they brought.
• Take turns drawing names: draw three names, hand those people your gifts, and explain why the item is one of your favorites.
• By the end, everyone leaves with a handful of new favorite things and a night of conversation and treats.

Why You’ll Love Hosting a My Favorite Things Party

A My Favorite Things Party puts the spotlight on thoughtful, affordable gifts and community. It encourages guests to share something meaningful in a low-pressure way and creates chances for stories, laughter, and new discoveries.

• Creative gift giving: Guests select a small item they genuinely use and enjoy, so gifts are practical and personal.
• Stronger connections: Explaining why an item is a favorite helps people open up and learn about one another.
• Lots of fun: The mix of snacks, stories, and surprise gifts keeps the energy light and joyful.
• Versatile format: Works for book clubs, families, coworkers, neighbors, or friend groups.

Step 1: Pick a Date and Set the Gift Budget

Choose a date that works for most guests—early December is ideal before calendars fill up, but an after-Christmas or January gathering can be a lovely, low-stress way to reconnect. Decide on the gift budget and number of identical items each person will bring. Common options include:

• Three gifts at $5 each (a total cost of about $15 per guest).
• Two gifts at $10 each, or other combinations based on your group’s preferences.
• Decide whether gifts should be wrapped for suspense or unwrapped to show off the item immediately.

Clear expectations make the exchange smooth and fair for everyone involved.

Step 2: Send the Invitations

Send invitations at least a few weeks in advance so guests can shop and plan. Both digital invites and mailed cards work well. Be sure to explain the format so everyone knows what to bring and how the exchange will run.

Sample invitation wording:

🎄 You’re Invited to a My Favorite Things Christmas Party! 🎁

Let’s celebrate the season by sharing small joys that make life brighter. Here’s how to join:

• Bring three identical “favorite things” gifts, $5 or less per item, wrapped and ready to exchange. Please choose non-food items you love and use.
• Bring a favorite snack (sweet or savory) to share.
• Drinks will be provided. We’ll exchange gifts, enjoy snacks, and make new memories.

When: [Date & Time]
Where: [Location]

Step 3: Get Your Home and Snacks Ready

On party day, have your gifts wrapped and ready to place in a central spot. Arrange seating in a circle so people can easily take turns and see each other when they speak. Set up a table or coffee table with shared snacks so guests can graze throughout the evening.

As the host, provide beverages—coffee, tea, and at least one special cold drink or punch. Keep plates, napkins, and utensils handy, and leave space for guests to set down their snacks and drinks while they participate in the exchange.

Step 4: Play the My Favorite Things Gift Exchange Game

How to play:

• Each guest places her name into the bowl once for every gift she brought.
• Going around the circle, each person draws three names (or however many gifts they brought) and gives their gifts to the people they draw. If someone draws their own name, they replace it and draw again.
• When giving a gift, the giver briefly explains why the item is a favorite.
• Continue until everyone has had a turn and the bowl is empty.

Host tip: Keep a couple of small backup gifts on hand in case of mix-ups or if someone ends up needing an extra item.

Snacks and Appetizers for a My Favorite Things Party

Snacks are an essential part of the evening. Ask guests to bring a sweet or savory favorite to share. Arrange all treats on the coffee table or a buffet so people can sample and chat throughout the night.

Provide cups, plates, napkins, and a signature drink—something festive and non-alcoholic is welcoming for most groups. A simple punch, sparkling beverage, or seasonal mocktail pairs nicely with a selection of small bites and sweets.

Gift Ideas for a My Favorite Things Party

Select practical, small items you genuinely enjoy. Below are inexpensive, crowd-pleasing ideas that travel well and feel thoughtful:

• Small spatula for frosting or baking tools
• Travel makeup bags or pouches
• Cozy socks or slipper socks
• Stainless steel collapsible straw or reusable utensils
• Warm mittens or gloves found on sale
• Lip balms, glosses, or small skincare items (often sold in multi-packs)
• Candles, hand creams, or small cozy home items

FAQs

How many gifts does each person bring?
Typically three identical gifts, but any equal number works for your group.

What’s a good budget?
Three gifts at $5 each keeps costs low and participation easy, but adjust the budget to suit your guests.

Should gifts be wrapped?
Wrapped gifts add surprise; unwrapped gifts let everyone see and admire items immediately. Either is fine.

What if someone draws their own name?
They simply put it back and draw again.

Is this appropriate for coworkers or family?
Yes. It’s a flexible format that suits many groups, from coworkers to neighbors to family gatherings.