Which Room Should You Renovate First?

The dining room has always been one of my favorite spaces in the house. It carries a sense of history and character that I don’t find in many other rooms — from the multiple small windowpanes that filter in soft light to the architectural details that hint at the home’s past.

Over the years we’ve put a lot of care into this room. It’s been repainted several times as we refined the palette to complement the windows and trim, and the stenciled curtains were a real labour of love — an effort that brought texture and a handmade quality to the space. Those small, intentional details are part of what makes this dining room special: finishes, textiles, and finishes that speak to the household’s taste and history.

Despite the attention and the work, the irony is that we weren’t using the room as often as we hoped. We imagined big dinner parties and frequent family gatherings, but in reality those events were few and far between. Last year we didn’t host a single large dinner party, and even nightly family dinners around this table were rare. Life, schedules, and routines kept pulling us in other directions.

That gap between the room’s potential and its actual daily use became a central design challenge for us. We didn’t want the space to be merely decorative; we wanted it to be lived in, to serve practical needs while still celebrating the aesthetic qualities we love. Rather than strip the room of its character, our goal was to adapt and reimagine how it functions so it would naturally become part of our everyday life.

We talked a lot about what a more functional dining room could look like for our family. The answer wasn’t to replace everything; it was to keep the pieces that mean the most to us — the heirloom furniture with its stories and the architectural elements that give the room its soul — and to find smarter ways to use them. That meant rethinking furniture placement, lighting, storage, and the room’s day-to-day purpose so that the space would invite use rather than remain just a showpiece.

When an email arrived from Benjamin Moore, it felt like the nudge we needed. The message prompted us to focus on the dining room as the next space to renovate and rethink. We knew immediately this was the room we wanted to transform — not only in appearance but in how it functions for our daily lives and the occasional celebrations we do host.

Our plan is to preserve the main furniture — those beloved family pieces — and give them renewed roles that fit into a livable, modern routine. Instead of sitting underused, these items will adapt: seating and storage will be reconfigured for everyday convenience, surfaces will be organized for both daily tasks and entertaining, and the overall layout will encourage people to gather naturally.

We’re excited about the possibilities and the practical improvements we’ll make. This project is about honoring the past while designing for the present. It’s about making a beautiful room useful and welcoming, so it becomes a place where memories are made as often as it’s admired.

{Any guesses as to what those heirloom pieces will become? Stay tuned for the next chapters of this dining room makeover — the ongoing saga of turning a cherished but underused space into the heart of our home.}